T.W. Jackson’s Magic of Making Up eBook is widely considered to be one of the most effective guides to help reconnect after you’ve been jilted by a lover. The guide is full of techniques to help you accomplish that goal, and perhaps the most talked about of Jackson’s methods is the Instant Reconnect Technique.
At its core, there’s nothing too complicated about this technique. The basic concept, according to T.W. Jackson himself, is to take your ex-lover back through time to when things were going well between you. All loving relationships start with physical and emotional cues that spark the feelings between a couple. When this method is effectively utilized, it triggers in the ex those little things they missed, habits such as the way they brush their lover’s hair aside, or open doors for them. These are very powerful emotional connections that are developed, despite sometimes getting buried as problems in a relationship develop.
If you think about it, it’s these very things that make you miss your ex so badly. Now imagine the impact it would have on your ex if they got those feelings back, the same ones that you still have. The goal of the Instant Reconnect technique is to simply re-ignite those feelings. It’s easy to see that this is a very powerful psychological tool to help win someone back.
While this method does work, it is also one of the steps that should not be rushed into or taken lightly, no matter how tempting it may be to get your ex back as quickly as possible. If you don’t follow the guide in Jackson’s eBook to a tee, expect it to blow up in your face. Timing is key for Instant Reconnect to work, and if you try it at the wrong time, expect to be rebuffed. Fortunately, the guide will give you many ideas and times on when you should use it.
One of the best ideas is to invite your ex on date. Now, your ex may not be willing to go on a date with you, but you may be able to at least get them to see you. Once you are together, and things seem fairly comfortable, you can try something like picking a piece of lint off their shirt. You just want some excuse to make physical contact. As you talk, take note of her expressions and body language. It shouldn’t be hard to see if she’s being either receptive or cold. If she tries to bring up issues about why you broke up, just listen and don’t argue. If things go well by the end of the night, don’t ask them out again. Give it time. This is just one idea, you can learn much more reading the eBook.
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